Crabtree Wellbeing

Emotional Wellbeing

 

Our own felt sense of feeling comfortable, healthy and happy in life is how we define emotional wellbeing. Emotional wellbeing is more than just feeling happy ‘in the moment’; it includes our sense of satisfaction, life goals, meaning and purpose and how in control we feel.

One person’s emotional well-being may be very different from another; this is not surprising as we are all unique, with our own subjective sense of self, personality and experiences. Building emotional wellbeing enables us to cope with life’s ups and downs and achieve personal goals.

Emotional wellbeing can be affected by external factors (e.g. economic status, housing, employment, relationships), and internal factors (e.g. physical health, resilience, self-esteem). We can help build our emotional wellbeing by1:

1. Connecting with other people; good relationships provide emotional support, build self-worth and enable us to share experiences, thoughts and feelings

2. Being physically active; being active helps improve mood (by releasing endorphins in the brain that help you feel good), self-esteem and to set personal goals and achieve them

3. Learning new skills; learning a new skill or hobby gives meaning and purpose, improves self-confidence and supports emotional connection as we often do this with others.

4. Giving to others; acts of kindness and giving can improve self-worth and personal reward, emotional connection with others and meaning and purpose.

5. Being in the present moment (mindful); paying attention to your thoughts, feelings, body and the physical world ‘in the moment’ has been shown to improve mental wellbeing as we are able to focus on the present experience rather than past or future thoughts.

 
 

Further reading:

1https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/self-help/guides-tools-and-activities/five-steps-to-mental-wellbeing/ (accessed January 24th 2022)

2https://www.cdc.gov/hrqol/wellbeing.htm#:~:text=In%20simple%20terms%2C%20well%2Dbeing,critical%20to%20overall%20well%2Dbeing (accessed January 24th 2022)

Physical Wellbeing

 

Physical wellbeing – maintaining our physical health and quality of life- is as important as good mental health, enabling us to build resilience and enjoy daily activities without undue physical stress or fatigue.

Physical wellbeing is affected by our daily habits, behaviours and lifestyle choices including levels of sleep, activity, what we eat, hygiene and relaxation. For example, being physically active has been shown to improve self-esteem, mood, energy levels, quality of sleep, and lower the risk of developing some long-term chronic conditions (e.g. heart disease) and reduce the risk of clinical depression, Alzheimer’s disease and dementia.1

Further reading:

1 https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/exercise/exercise-health-benefits/ (accessed January 24th 2022)
 

Social Wellbeing

Social wellbeing is the ability to develop and share meaningful relationships with other people; social relationships can provide pleasure and enjoyment, boost our self-worth and give meaning and purpose to our lives.

We are fundamentally social beings, and therefore feeling connected to others is an integral human need, which can foster feelings of safety and happiness. In contrast, feelings of isolation and loneliness can affect our mental health.
 

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Mindfulness

Mindfulness is the ability to be fully aware and present of where we are and what we are doing; this includes tuning in with awareness to bodily sensations, thoughts and feelings with acceptance rather than judgment. By focusing on the ‘present moment’ we learn to tune in to our immediate experience and develop awareness rather than relive past or future thoughts.

The main benefits of mindfulness include reducing stress by relaxing the mind and body.

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Meet Emma Crabtree

Integrative Counsellor

I am a qualified BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy) registered counsellor and member of the British Psychological Society (GMBPsS).

Finding the right counsellor can feel overwhelming, so I offer a free 20 minute initial consultation by phone to discuss your therapy needs and to establish whether I am the right counsellor for you.

Following this, if you would like to proceed with me, we can book a 50 minute counselling session either on Zoom, telephone or face to face. My working days are Mondays and Fridays.

 

QUALIFICATIONS AND EXPERIENCE

counsellor
  • BSc Psychology (First class)
  • FdA Counselling (Distinction)
  • Registered Member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy)
  • Member of the British Psychological Society (GMBPsS)
  • BSc in Biomedical Science (2:1)
  • Volunteer Addiction Counsellor at Iceni, Ipswich (2019-2021)
  • Support worker, Suffolk Mind Waves Service (running groups for clients with Borderline Personality Disorder) (2017-2021)
  • Counsellor and Group Facilitator: Venta Programme, Iceni Ipswich for men who cause harm in intimate relationships (2021- present)
  • Appropriate Adult for Anglia Care Trust for those arrested with mental health difficulties or young people (2017-2019)
  • Youth Mentor at local Secondary School: Supporting vulnerable young people with emotional and academic support (2012-2017)
About Us  

Client testimonials

I’m so glad I found Emma. She is wonderfully warm and caring, and has gently encouraged me to open up about my issues which we have then been able to discuss and reframe in a safe and constructive way. I always come away from my sessions with Emma feeling greater resilience and positivity. I would highly recommend her.” Bridget

“Emma is super kind and lovely and has helped a lot with my mental health, along with helping me become a more emotionally available person which is amazing! Super easy to talk to and I have never felt judged for my weird outlooks or views and has always made me feel accepted.” Russell

“Emma has provided invaluable support to me over the past couple of months. She is an outstanding listener whose friendly, yet professional, manner put me at ease from the start, enabling me to share and work through my issues in a secure and safe environment. I would very highly recommend her as a counsellor.” Andrew

“My counselling sessions with Emma were very helpful. I felt I was in a mess when we started and Emma kindly and gently helped me to talk about my problems and find a way forward. I felt that she really understood me and helped me to understand myself better. It was time well spent.” Jenny